Madam Kighal's Astrology

Here’s some general info about Cancer that might give you an idea of what they’re all about:

their ruling planet is the Moon
their element is Water
basic trait: I Feel!

strengths: loyal, adaptable, family oriented, empathetic
weaknesses: moody, indecisive, emotional, sensitive

A typical Cancerian male is someone who’s shy, and seems very introvert. He’s not someone who shares a lot of things about himself, he’s more the type that likes to stay out of the way, and mind his own business. He’s willing to eventually open up, if you’re willing to work hard to make him feel comfortable, to do that.
The thing is, he might seem like a complete and total puzzle to you for quite some time, before you start to get the idea of what he’s really like. Don’t let this period discourage you, or make you give up on him – cause if you take a step back you’ll never get close to this guy.

His shyness may make him come across as distant and uninterested, but be sure that’s not the way he is.

Just like the crab, which is the symbol of this sign, he will pull back into his shell, which is his comfort zone, when he starts feeling threatened.
So make your approach accordingly. You’ll want to be aggressive, but not too much because that will scare him, and nonchalant, but not too much because that won’t have any effect on him. You’ll need to get him to open up, before you can take a place in his heart.
The thing is, even though he’s often in his own world, he’s a very realistic person. So if you want to be with him, he will take time to make sure that you’re suitable to be his partner. As harsh as it may sound, he may even judge you, to see if you are worthy of being his other half.
If you want this guy, make sure you put up with this, and stay by him no matter what. No playing games with a Cancerian. You want to show your affection, pamper him and be the perfect girl. Once he starts trusting you he will appreciate it like no other, and shower you with love and affection himself. That’s the deal with a Cancer man, it takes time to crack that hard shell and get in, but once you get in there, you’ll see it’s all been worth it.

HOW TO ATTRACT A CANCER MAN

Five Clever Ways to Make a Cancer Man Fall in Love With You!

Act a bit helpless

The number one tip for attracting a Cancer man is to act a little bit helpless. He's likely to respond much more positively if he thinks you're in need of some tender loving care. So although in reality you may well be quite tough and capable, make a point of showing him your more vulnerable side. Incredibly soft-hearted by nature, the Cancer man can't resist a sob story and will want to look after you in nay way that he can. With his high level of sensitivity, he's closely in touch with his feminine side and not normally a particularly macho type of guy. Cancerians do, however, have strongly developed protective instincts and will fight bravely to help the weak and defenceless. So if you like the idea of being rescued by your very own knight in shining armor, don't hesitate to ask for his assistance.

Ask him about his roots

A reliable way of attracting a Cancer man's interest is to talk to him about your family background, and in turn to ask him to tell you about his. Family is very important to this guy and often tends to be his main priority in life, taking precedence even over his job or career. Enquiring about his childhood roots, such as where he was born, whether or not he has brothers and sisters, or where his family spent their vacations, is an excellent tactic for getting to know the Cancer man. Even better, and a sure way to make him fall in love with you, is to take an active interest in his mother. Cancer men usually have a very close relationship with their mother, and securing her approval is a must-have for any long-term relationship. So if you're serious about seducing this guy, you'd better start making a friend of this woman now!

Convince him you're a homebody

The average Cancer man's ideal vision of the future centers on a nice house and garden of his own, filled with adorable children and pets. A dedicated homebody at heart, he's unlikely to consider a long-term relationship with someone who isn't the nesting type too. For this reason, if you want this guy to fall in love with you, it's important to give the impression that you're highly domesticated and that you love children and animals. Most Cancerian men will eventually want to become fathers, so if you detest kids it could prove a big sticking point with this man. Talking to him about your current home, as well as where you aspire to live in the future, will encourage him to open up to you about his own hopes and dreams and create an emotional bond on which you can begin to build.

Be kind and caring

Don't make the mistake, however, of coming on too strong or asking too many probing questions at first. The male Crab is a shy and reserved creature, easily scared off by predatory types intent on gobbling him up. He's reluctant to divulge too much about himself until he's ready to accept you into his inner circle, and will only clam up if you dig too deep too soon. To gain a Cancerian's trust, it's vital to show yourself as kind, caring and above all an excellent listener. Because he has a strong emotional nature and is easily hurt, he needs a partner who will sympathize with his mood swings (of which he has many!) and to whom he can express his feelings without being judged. Avoid criticizing him, arguing with him or chiding him to 'pull himself together' if you want to win a Cancer man's heart.

Appeal to his traditional values

You'll attract a Cancerian more easily if you make him believe that, just like him, you have a traditional approach to love. With his old-fashioned values, this man is looking for a true soul mate with whom he can settle down happily ever after, not just a one night stand. Because he needs a partner who will be loyal and faithful, he's unlikely to fall in love with you if he suspects you're the kind of person who plays the field. The Cancer man is attracted more by modesty and 'niceness' than any amount of raunchy good looks. Renowned for his sense of romance, he loves candlelit dinners in intimate surroundings, so when the moment is right to seduce him, don't be afraid to ask him over to your place rather than wait for an invitation from him. Cancerian guys sometimes need a bit of a prod to get a new relationship underway.

What Signs Are Compatible with Cancer?

Cancer is a water sign and is most compatible with the other two water signs and the three earth signs.

Remember that there is a lot more to compatibility analysis than just comparing Sun Signs. To get an accurate picture, it’s necessary to compare both people’s full birth charts. Please write me a

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Cancer and Cancer

There's an immediate understanding between the two of you. It's almost as though you can read each other's mind because you're so much alike. You'll feel that this is a match made in zodiac heaven, and it will be for a while. Whether or not this is more than the first rush of new love or if it's a lifetime love affair depends on other aspects of your natal charts. Too much of the same thing can breed malcontent in your relationship. You need a few differences to keep things hot and spicy.

Cancer and Scorpio

This has the potential to be one of the best matches between signs. Cancer can be a bit too emotional and even clingy for Scorpio. If Scorpio can recognize the reason behind Cancer's jealousy and neediness is a fear of loss, this can help the crab overcome feelings of insecurity. A little reassurance will go a very long way toward helping Cancer not feel so out of water. Just don't let the crab retreat to the protection of his shell or Scorpio will have a difficult job getting him to come back out and talk. Scorpio should be mindful of that stinging tongue that can sometimes turn on poor unsuspecting Cancer. If both these signs can get over their hard-shell attitudes, they'll discover a very rewarding and fulfilling relationship.

Earth and Water: Giving Form

Earth signs work well with water signs to co-create a life together. Earth gives water form and contains the many energies and ideas flowing from water signs. Water signs nourish earth and help grow ideas into profitable business ventures as well as a home and family.

Cancer and Capricorn

Cancer longs for security and stability. People of this sign want a solid financial foundation and a home they can enjoy. Capricorn's ambition excites Cancer who understands the importance of goal setting. Home and business will be closely interconnected. Cap would make a great business partner with Cancer. This pair could build a dynasty and love every moment working together to create it.

Cancer and Taurus

Cancer will expect Taurus to come charging in, but will be pleasantly surprised by the bull's sense of style and taking things slowly - at first. Taurus' sensual nature and deep appreciation for beauty will quickly win over the sensitive Cancer. The Bull's love of the finer things in life fits in with Cancer's appreciation for creating a home. Together, this pair knows what they want, and they can have it all.

Cancer and Virgo

This match moves along at a snail's pace. Virgo doesn't take risks, especially when it comes to love. Virgos want to be sure their Cancer partners are really as good as they seem. Time is the biggest tester of authenticity, and Virgo isn't in any hurry to rush into this relationship and create a situation where there is no way out. First things must come first, and understanding mysterious Cancer is the first priority. The first thing Virgos notice is how much Cancer needs their help in getting life organized and prioritized. Once trust is established, the relationship will move steadily forward and can grow into a profound love of deep appreciation for each other.

Connecting with Fire and Air

Cancer's emotions are always close to the surface. It only takes a very light scratching to find the wellspring of emotions that can scare off most air signs and extinguish passionate fire signs. On the flip-side, just the thought of being blasted with hot air makes Cancer cringe. So, it really helps to know what signs are compatible with Cancer before venturing into a relationship.