Madam Kighal's Astrology

Here’s some general info about Capricorn that might give you an idea of what they’re all about:

Erogenous Zone: The knees.
Most Likeable Trait: Steadiness
Element: Earth (practical and stable)
Ruling Planet: Saturn (planet of discipline and limitation)
Keyword: I USE
Birthstone: Garnet

strengths: hard working, responsible, reliable, strong-willed, sincere
weaknesses: introvert, short tempered, obsolete, cannot accept authority

Mind you, it’s not going to be easy! Mostly because a Capricorn man is going to have walls up. He tends to go through life guarded and not letting anyone come too close, so you will have to be pretty persistent to change that. When I say persistent I definitely don’t mean pushy, as we’ve already established – being forced into something doesn’t sit well with the Capricorn man.

What you have to know is that the calm, realistic almost distant and cold exterior is mainly just the packaging to what’s inside, and that is a romantic, charming softy who seeks admiration just as much as the next guy. It’s important to always keep this in mind, cause it may seem that compliments and all the flirty little things you’re doing aren’t really getting to him at all. Trust me he’s getting it, he only doesn’t quite know how to acknowledge it and react. This is why he may come off as conceded, when in fact he’s just shy.

Hey you...Capricorn Man

The Capricorn man has a frank, earthy approach to love. Emotions are not easy for you and you find it difficult to trust. You’re a faithful lover and don’t feel the need to stray. There is a part of you, however, that prefers to remain a loner.

You appear self-assured and have a cool exterior. Yet you have a deep need to be assured of a woman’s love. You do have a romantic streak, but you will sacrifice romance to fulfil your ambitions.

Your passion is ignited easily and though you may not be the most imaginative or poetic partner, you are lusty and skilful in bed. For optimal intimate encounters, you prefer a comfortable setting – a big bed, soft lighting, romantic music and champagne will do the trick. You love surprising your partner and the right woman will soon get to know your sensual, poetic side. (As nicely said by Mia Rose!)

Capricorn Lover: What to Expect

Family History and Ancestry

Understanding male Capricorn behavior begins with Cap's family history and/or ancestry. This is because as Cancer's opposite sign, the family has a strong pull on Capricorn (many in fact, find researching their family tree an enjoyable pastime). Two characteristics strongly associated with Capricorn are ambition and drive, but these traits have their roots in the male's family.

This comes from Capricorn's ruler, Saturn. Saturn is seen as the "father", and in personal astrological charts, Saturn actually rules the father or father-figure in one's life.

To continue, this lends and austere personality to Capricorn that can sometimes come across as "uppity" or "standoffish", but this is really just Capricorns upholding their family beliefs of strength and keeping a "stiff upper lip".

The truth be told, this appearance couldn't be farther from the truth! The male Capricorn just looks this way. What he is really trying to do is uphold the tradition or values that have been handed down to him through his family lineage.

Intense and a Strong Sexual Stamina

While not readily apparent to the casual observer, many who know a male Capricorn can attest to their strong intense sexual appetite and stamina. Do you know the expression, "randy as a goat"? Well, that accurately describes many Capricorns! While they appear distant, they are actually quite sexual and passionate. These traits help them quite a bit in their everyday lives as they channel that passion into their careers.

Ambitious and Materialistic

Understanding male Capricorn behavior means understanding Cap's symbol. In nature, the goat takes acute pleasure in climbing over the roughest of terrains to reach the peak of many a mountainside. Capricorn behaves much in the same manner. Sure footed, steady and dogged, Capricorns yearn to see the world from the top down, and they will work hard to ensure that this dream comes true.

Along the climb, they want to enjoy the "spoils" they've achieved during the journey. In modern times, that can mean driving a swanky car or living in a posh neighborhood. There is nothing wrong with enjoying the fruits of one's labor. However, the male Cap needs to realize that he is not defined by his possessions.

Much like his opposite sign of Cancer, Capricorn craves security, but unlike Cancer who finds this security in people, Cap often finds it in things. He feels safe knowing that he has acquired a great number of things. As long as he realizes that they are just that; mindless objects, then there is no reason why he shouldn't enjoy himself.

Dealing with Emotions

Something most people don't realize about Capricorn men is that they are often sad. This doesn't necessarily mean that they are depressed, but it does mean that from time to time, the responsibilities of their everyday lives can wear on them and feel "heavy". For Capricorn, this is perfectly normal, and should not pose any long-term problems kept in check.

Another surprising trait of Capricorn men is that they readily, especially in the beginning of a romance, express their love very clearly. In fact, when Caps fall in love, they are usually astonished; they usually believe, perhaps because they tend to be so serious, that love will never happen for them.
Pluto and the New Cycle

A new fourteen year cycle is just beginning for Capricorn. Pluto, Scorpio's ruler, has now moved into Capricorn after a long thirteen year stay in Sagittarius. This aspect will now radically transform the way Capricorn thinks and how they look at the world. Pluto's job is to "unearth", but this is an excruciatingly long process.

From now and into the next decade and beyond, Capricorn men will begin questioning the value's they were raised with, and after a time, decide what elements to keep and what best to be rid of.

To Sum Up

Understanding Capricorn men is no easy feat, but some things, like Capricorn's loyal and steadfast dedication to achieve their goals and meet their commitments are mainstays of their personality. Whether its work, family or romance-oriented, you can count on your Capricorn man, as sure-footed as always, to be there in the end. (By Jacqueline Dautaj)

HOW TO ATTRACT A Capricorn MAN

Walk past him slowly… and linger.

Make it convenient, safe, and easy for him to start a conversation. Set the stage for a “natural” interaction. You may literally have to fall into his lap for him to talk to you.

Pierce the veil.

With the Capricorn man, it takes work to get past his initial reserve. Boldly go where few other women have gone, and tough out the initial awkwardness. Summon the courage to be yourself and share your passions, even if he’s quiet. Turn up the volume to 10 and keep it there. If he likes you, he’ll slowly crank up his own volume to an enthusiastic (for a Capricorn) 4. Before you know it, he’ll be asking for your digits.

Ask him a slightly racy question.

He might look like the guy who’d blush at the word “breast,” but you’d be surprised. He’ll shock you with a raunchy, direct, and funny answer, and the ice will thaw from there.

Flirt with him at work.

Capricorn is in his element at the office, so if you connect through your job, all the better. Start by going to lunch together. Keep him excited with suggestive, sidelon glances in the hallway and “accidental” contact in the copy room. Soon, your lunch breaks could get veeeery interesting.